If men have good or bad reviews, are those shared with the woman they make an offer to?

Maezawa from the president’s office here. Thank you for your question. We want to share negative feedback about men with women, but some women show the exact messages we sent them to the men in question. Then the men complain, saying things like: “My profile is inaccurate, so fix it.” “What evidence do you have?” “It’s ridiculous to write such inaccurate information.” And the feedback gets deleted. It’s kind of like women’s worst enemies are other women… >< That’s why the messages gradually become almost like coded language, and we sometimes wonder whether the important points are getting through to the women. Still, unless the feedback has been deleted because the man himself complained, additional wording is usually included. So it may be best to assume that something about ten times worse than what’s written actually happened. By the way, we’re not writing these things to tell women to turn down the date. We write them so that, if they know in advance, they can handle the situation appropriately. For example, suppose there was a man who only gave a woman 5,000 yen after they had an adult relationship (intimate). In reality, that means he gave her nothing. What happened was that he simply paid the club’s standard 5,000–10,000 yen after they finished at the hotel. The man might say: “I thought it was a romantic relationship. The woman seemed fine with it. I never imagined I’d receive feedback like that. From now on, I’ll make sure to talk things over properly with women.” The frightening part is that he says he’ll “talk” next time, rather than saying he’ll pay. This man has misunderstood the arrangement. However, if he says the woman agreed to it as well, the club can’t really say anything. A dating club is a place where compensation is paid, so if there’s no compensation, it goes against the purpose of the service. All we can really say is that if the same thing continues, he may be forcibly banned from the club. But if the woman knows this beforehand, and she still hasn’t received the club-standard 5,000–10,000 yen by the end of dinner, then if the man says something like, “Why don’t we go to a hotel after this?” she can respond: “Before that, could I receive the club-standard 5,000–10,000 yen?” That allows her to handle things differently from how she would with other men. Also, if he asks her to go to a hotel, she doesn’t have to simply follow him. She can properly ask: “How much allowance were you thinking of?” If she knows he’s misunderstanding the arrangement, even a woman who normally wouldn’t ask may be able to bring it up. That’s what we hope these notes will help with: don’t show them to the men, be cautious on the date, and only turn down the date if you feel you really can’t handle the situation. Of course, you’re free to decline an offer beforehand. You can simply say, “It says he’s misunderstanding the arrangement, so I’ll pass.” That’s perfectly fine. (The staff may still try to persuade you, though.) So, while we do share men’s negative feedback with women, it is generally quite vague. If you’re asking whether we share it individually, then basically, we don’t share it directly in either direction—neither from men to women nor from women to men. If the person has agreed that we may confirm the details with them, then we will pass on the information and ask them about it.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Apparently, even though the introduction is only a sentence or two, they subtly convey the person’s less appealing qualities as part of their personality or characteristics. When you meet them, they seem to be just as described…