I’ll answer this as Maezawa from the president’s office.
Thank you for your questions.
> If I tell the staff that I’ve ended things with a man, will that be mentioned in my profile?
Usually, it won’t be.
I don’t think there’s much benefit to either side in mentioning it, and most people would probably assume that was the case anyway.
That said, if a man asks why things ended, the staff might possibly tell him. However, men who ask about the reason often have a specific deal-breaker in mind—something that would make them not want to make an offer. So in most cases, if the reason is acceptable to them, they’ll probably still make an offer.
> Regardless of the reason, are women who register again—or register for a third time—likely to be avoided because they have experience with a dating club?
Most men don’t seem to care much about that.
However, the men who were members when you registered previously had probably already decided whether or not to make you an offer at that time. So after you register again, your offers would likely come from men who weren’t members back then but joined afterward.
For example, even if there are 4,000 male members, if 2,000 of them joined after your previous registration, your chances of receiving an offer would effectively be half of what they were before.
Even so, with 2,000 men, I think you could still receive a reasonable number of offers.
There are also women who have stayed registered for a long time and continue to receive multiple offers every month.
And if you look more attractive than before when you register again, you may even receive offers from men who were members previously.
Ultimately, I think it depends on you.
Basically, I believe there are benefits to registering again, no matter how many times.
I’m Kazu, a male member.
> Do women who re-register or register for a third time make a bad impression?
I think it depends on the man.
Women who prefer someone fresh and inexperienced may view it negatively, but men who focus on the substance of the arrangement probably won’t. I’m in the latter group.
> If I tell the staff that I’ve parted ways with a man, will they mention that in my introduction?
Usually, they won’t, though they may include details that are likely to be viewed favorably.
For example, they might write something like, “She left because her work became too demanding and it was difficult for her to make time.” But they probably wouldn’t write that you re-registered because you broke up with a man. I’ve never seen a profile that said anything like that.
Of course, it depends on the staff member handling your case, so I can’t say for certain whether they will or won’t include it.
> Will women who re-register or register for a third time be avoided regardless of the reason?
As I said at the beginning, it depends.
I focus on the substance of the arrangement, so I wouldn’t avoid someone simply because she has experience with a dating club. In fact, I’d have a more favorable impression of her than of a woman who has stayed registered for three years.
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
For men who joined while you were on leave or had already withdrawn, it won’t really matter, so don’t worry—you can re-register even five or six years later and be perfectly fine.
That said, your “freshness” gradually fades after three days, three weeks, and three months, so when you re-register, you’ll have to rely on your own merits rather than novelty.
On the plus side, men can approach you as a woman who already understands the experience and benefits of the club mentioned in your question, which makes things go very smoothly even after you meet.
