I’m the one who asked this question.
Thank you to all three of you.
> Depending on the woman, it may not overflow outside, so it can be difficult to tell.
It may be hard to tell when nothing comes out, but in my case, the vaginal fluid that has overflowed is smeared all over my clitoris. It should be visible outside. Even so, he still puts saliva on his fingers.
> In that case, do you also prohibit kissing?
I don’t prohibit kissing specifically. I do tell him to stop if he licks around the outside of my mouth.
I think the environment inside the mouth and inside the vagina are completely different. The amount of bacteria and the body’s resistance are different too. So mouth-to-mouth doesn’t really bother me, but mouth-to-vagina does.
This isn’t based on any medical evidence; it’s entirely a matter of how I feel.
> It kills the mood.
> It seems like there probably won’t be a next time.
I didn’t realize this was something people would have such a hard time understanding. That’s disappointing.
I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well.
> I’m being made to smear the sexual fluids that have spilled out onto my clitoris. They should already be outside, but I’m still being asked to put saliva on their fingers.
I see. In that case, there really doesn’t seem to be any clear reason.
If kissing is okay, it might be worth bringing it up gently and indirectly. Of course, it wouldn’t be a good idea during the act or while you’re both naked, but perhaps you could talk about it while you’re still dressed.
That said, finding the right way to say it seems difficult.
The reason is that someone who’s okay with kissing, oral sex, and cunnilingus with a person they like, but doesn’t want to do those things with anyone else, may be assumed to be forcing themselves to do this kind of thing.
Emphasizing that you can’t even do it with a boyfriend might ease that impression a little, but it still sounds difficult.
So I suppose the only option is to build a relationship and gradually bring it up gently over time, though that also seems quite challenging.
Still, the fact that kissing is okay seems like an important point, so it might help to work that into the conversation skillfully.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
> >Some women don’t have it overflow externally, so it can be hard to tell with some women.
> >If it doesn’t come out, I suppose you might not know, but in my case, she smears the vaginal fluids that have overflowed onto my clitoris. It should be visible externally. Even so, she puts saliva on her fingers.
I see. That took an unexpected turn.
In that case, I wonder why she licks her fingers. Maybe it’s simply a habit, like people who lick their fingers when turning pages.
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