A question for the ladies: How many papas do you have? If it becomes an adult relationship (intimate), is it generally considered normal to have just one?
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There are two papas I’m interested in, and the terms are almost identical. (They’re both kind, offer the same allowance, and I enjoy spending time with both of them.)
When I think about the money, I’d like to continue seeing both of them. However, one papa told me he doesn’t want me to see anyone else, while the other hasn’t asked whether I have a relationship with another papa, so I haven’t brought it up myself.
I don’t think it’s right to lie, but I just can’t decide… Ideally, I’d like to continue seeing both of them. Should I be honest and date both, narrow it down to one, or lie and somehow continue seeing both? I’d love to hear everyone’s opinions.
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
Thanks for your question.
I think the most peaceful approach would be to lie to one papa and simply not tell the other.
But if you feel guilty about lying, you could try saying something like:
“To be honest, there’s another papa I’d like to see as well. If that’s not something you can accept, then maybe it’s better for us to part ways.”
You might end up breaking up with that person, but at least you won’t have to lie.
Even if they ask what kind of person the other papa is, I think it’s better to be vague. Telling them would probably only make them jealous.
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I think any arrangement is fine as long as it’s something you can enjoy comfortably without causing yourself stress.
That said, if you’re honest with someone who doesn’t want you seeing anyone else, there’s a good chance the relationship will end.
Marika
P.S. I won’t say exactly how many people there are, but I don’t tell any of them that I’m seeing other people. There was one person who knew about it because he knew me as Marika, but he was the only one.
Unless someone has a particular kink involving jealousy or cuckolding, I don’t tell them.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I’m not a female member, but… having too many would be risky and make dating difficult. Two should be fine, though (lol).
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