I’m a female member experiencing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for the first time.

Sorry for the long post. This happened about a year ago, but I’m still bothered by the words and actions of the first person who made me an offer. ・He was about 15 minutes late for our first date. ・On our first date, he kept me for six hours without discussing it with me beforehand. We talked at a café for about 30 minutes, and spent the rest of the time at a hotel. Even the conversation at the café consisted mostly of vulgar topics, such as dirty jokes and making fun of things he had overheard elsewhere. ・During our second date, he suddenly said, “Don’t you think you should get your eyes fixed?” I was shocked because I had never met anyone who would seriously say something like that directly to someone, regardless of their gender or age. I also couldn’t help thinking that, with no sense of cleanliness and no appearance that gave him any right to criticize someone else’s looks, he had some nerve. ・The rough treatment left me sore, and when I told him, “I can’t do anything more today,” he reduced my allowance, saying, “Then it’s three hours today, so three.” It felt as though he was calculating it by the hour. I ended up needing medical treatment because of the soreness. ・He said he wanted us to become friends with benefits—in other words, he wanted to continue without an allowance. ・We only went on four dates, but every time we went straight to a hotel. Even when I hinted that I wanted to do something different once in a while, he wouldn’t agree. (This was shortly before COVID-19 began spreading widely.) At the time, I wondered if this was just what papa-katsu was like since it was my first experience. I also had no other offers, so I decided to wait and see and didn’t write anything in the survey. However, it eventually became too physically difficult for me, so I ended things. After that, I received offers from various other people, and with every date I learned that his behavior was far from normal. I also remember what happened every time I go on a date, compare them to him, and end up feeling unsettled. It’s been about a year, but would it still be okay to tell the management about his lateness and the amount of time he kept me waiting back then? Sorry again for the long post.