Would it be okay to start at a hotel from the second meeting onward? I’d appreciate your opinions.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. If she’s a Type C, that shouldn’t be a problem (though it would probably be better to limit that to the COVID period). During the COVID period, when the virus was still unknown and people were much more cautious than they are now, spending the entire day at a hotel was often the only option. But now that we know more about COVID, I don’t do that anymore. Also, if she’s someone who normally takes the restrictions seriously and doesn’t eat out at all, she may not be particularly happy about meeting up only to spend the whole time at a hotel—even if she doesn’t say so out loud. With Type B women—and even some Type C women—many complain that “once you become intimate, every meeting after that is just hotels and intimacy.” So it’s worth keeping in mind that they may find it difficult to tell you how they really feel. I could understand using COVID as a reason last April, but I don’t think that excuse really holds up anymore. When you do get to meet, you probably want to have a normal date. The girls are already putting up with a lot by avoiding unnecessary outings in their everyday lives so they can safely meet you.

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. Not just at this time of year—if the woman feels it’s a good idea, I think it’s probably the better option. It depends on the individual, but compared with getting around town, it feels safer in many ways, and you can take your time.

I’m Kazu, a male member. That’s what I do. When making plans for a second date, I ask whether she’d be okay with room service in the hotel room.