How should I deal with a papa (a male supporter) whose private parts smell?
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He probably doesn’t wash his body with body soap to avoid being found out at home, but the smell is unbearable.
I don’t think he even takes the basic consideration of washing himself thoroughly in the shower.
It smells so bad when I’m giving him a blowjob that I end up gagging, and he doesn’t even notice. Once, I hesitated before licking him, and he said, “Huh? Do I smell?” as if it had nothing to do with him, which really irritated me.
I think it may be because he doesn’t have unscented body wash at home, but how should I deal with this?
Would he be offended if I brought some unscented body wash with me?
I’m genuinely at a loss.
Also, on the days we meet, he often eats garlic dishes for lunch without a second thought, and his bad breath really bothers me. The smell of garlic mixed with his regular old-man breath makes me feel sick.
I can’t bring myself to tell him either… What should I do?
Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
Thank you for your question.
First, I think you should talk to him about washing that area. That seems like the place to start.
You could say something like, “If it’s just that area, your family won’t find out,” and if he agrees, perhaps the questioner could wash it thoroughly for him.
If he still refuses to wash because he’s worried about being found out, you might need to say, “Then I’ll buy it and bring it next time,” and bring him an unscented body wash.
He might be surprised if you suddenly showed up with it, but if you bring it after discussing it with him, I think it should be fine.
The issue is that if the man isn’t humble, he might take offense and think, “What a rude person,” potentially ending the relationship.
So you also need to assess his usual personality.
Well, if he isn’t humble, you may not even be able to discuss it with him, so it might be worth considering ending things.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Washing your intimate area is basic etiquette. I think it’s fine to say, “I’m sorry, but could you take another shower?”
It’s also common courtesy not to eat strongly scented food before meeting someone. I love gyoza, but I only eat it on weekends.
I assumed eating garlic dishes before meeting someone was something women did, but I guess some older men do it too. I think you should just tell him, “You smell like garlic.”
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