I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Many people feel exactly as you do, like the questioner.
Even when they think that way, there’s still a small chance they may find themselves falling for someone.
And while some people don’t care either way, many others feel nothing at all.
In this world, even things that seem impossible can happen if they’re meant to be.
There are plenty of cases where women fall for—or even marry—men they were 100% sure they would never have feelings for.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here with an answer.
Thanks for your question.
> Is it possible for genuine love to develop from a connection like this?
Some people even end up getting married, so I do think it can turn into genuine love.
That said, rather than worrying about that, I feel the easiest solution is to simply pretend that you’re genuinely in love with that particular man.
If he starts saying things like, “I want to know the real you,” you could say something along the lines of:
“If you can’t trust me, then you’re not genuinely in love with me in the first place. If you love me, you should be able to believe everything I say 100%.”
I think it’s best to handle things smoothly and enjoy the relationship.
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I’m in Seattle.
You could say, “Let’s keep this going for a long time and make me fall for you ❤️”
If you build a good relationship over several years, I think it could happen.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
If I were a woman and needed money, I might actually find it pretty straightforward—and even kind of easy—to deal with men like that. I feel like I could probably play along without them realizing.
On the other hand, if I didn’t really need the money, someone like that would just be a huge hassle.
“True love,” huh… I don’t think that’s easy to find here.
If “true love” ≒ “being willing to die in their place,” then the only person I can think of is my daughter. I’d want to help my wife, but I wouldn’t want to die in her place. Getting slightly injured while saving her and being thanked for it would be about the right level for me（笑）
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Aren’t most married couples connected by money and children, too? So I don’t think a relationship is superficial just because it’s built on that kind of connection. Regardless of how it starts, I believe genuine love can grow.
That said, what are you hoping to do by looking for a woman who will truly love only you?
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