My papa was apparently asked by a hostess at a cabaret club to support her because she has no income.

I’m Taro, a male member. There’s something amusing about the phrase, “I’m not going to tell you.” He could just say, “There’s no way I’d meet anyone else,” and then do it behind her back. At least he’s honest, I suppose（笑） And “You’re my everything”? What is he, French?（笑） He says he wants to be possessive, too—and he’s not talking about it as part of a play. Wow. He must be the kind of person who says exactly what he’s thinking. He can’t lie, so I guess he ends up blurting out things he really didn’t need to mention, like his stories about hostesses. You’re being far too kind. Instead of saying, “Please tell me,” shouldn’t you say, “If you want to be possessive, then you shouldn’t see anyone else either”? Some couples have parallel relationships and are frank enough to talk about the other people they’re seeing. But that’s clearly not what you want, so you need to say so plainly. I don’t think he’ll get angry. He’ll probably understand—for the first time—that he shouldn’t say things like that in front of you. As for your actual question, it depends on the person（笑）. But if he genuinely falls for one person, I think he’ll naturally stop seeing others. There’s a song by Masashi Sada called “Kanpaku Sengen” (“The Declaration of a Husband’s Authority”). You should look it up on YouTube and give it a listen.

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. > If a man has plenty of money to spare, will he generally meet another woman if she invites him? I think it depends on the man. It probably varies depending on what kind of dating style he prefers. And if you look at it from the other perspective, the exact same thing can be said about women. Both men and women probably approach relationships differently depending on their circumstances.

Maezawa from the president’s office here, answering as well. Thank you for your question. > I heard that a hostess at a cabaret club told him she had no income and asked him for financial support. I think you should assume that he’s already involved with that woman in that way. A woman who says she can’t stand a man seeing other women wouldn’t be told about other women in the first place. If you want to find out, try taking the opposite approach. You could casually say things like: “I like men who see other women too.” “Men who say I’m the only one scare me. They seem like they might become stalkers.” Then add something like: “I’ve never been with another woman, but I’ve been a little curious about it.” If you lay that kind of groundwork, he’ll probably talk about other women fairly easily. Without setting a trap to that extent, I don’t think you’ll be able to find out. (Even then, cautious men probably won’t say anything, but an ordinary man likely will.) > If a man has enough money, will he generally meet another woman if she invites him? I think more men are the ones who initiate the invitation themselves.

I’m Tetsu, a male member. Of course he’s not going to tell you. Just remember that men will do anything to satisfy their desires. Why would a man who says, “You’re the only one,” need to register with a club in the first place? Behind “You’re the only one” is the unspoken meaning, “At this very moment, anyway.” That way, it isn’t technically a lie, right? (lol) I don’t think it’s a matter of having extra money. The papa you’re seeing is probably always looking for new encounters.