I was thinking about this recently: why is it that some people look beautiful or cute in their photos, but when you meet them in person, they somehow come across as vulgar despite having attractive features?
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It’s as if there’s no elegance in their overall presence or mannerisms...
Compared with outward beauty or cuteness, I find myself focusing more on that, and it can make it difficult to see them as a romantic partner. Have you ever felt this way? Are there people who don’t mind poor word choice, atmosphere, or mannerisms as long as someone is beautiful or cute?
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I wouldn’t call myself a particularly refined male member, but I do make an effort to watch my language and manners in my everyday life.
So far, I haven’t met anyone at a dating club whose language, demeanor, or manners were obviously poor.
The way someone speaks, their overall vibe, and their manners do matter, though（笑）
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I think that’s more influenced by a person’s upbringing, so it’s separate from their appearance.
If that’s something you place importance on when meeting someone, you might want to look for someone who has studied flower arranging or tea ceremony for many years.
That said, there are also refined people who haven’t done either, so you could think of dating as a way to figure that out.
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I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
Women have it tough, with society expecting them to live up to this idealized image of femininity...
Personally, even if someone’s a little crude, I’d rather they be genuine and not put on an act.
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I’m Hikoki, a male member.
I’ve never found them vulgar. Everyone spoke in a relaxed, gentle, and composed manner, and they were all pleasant to be around.
They say that the people around you reflect who you are, so I feel that creating that kind of comfortable atmosphere is important too.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Just because someone is attractive doesn’t mean they’re classy, so I think it’s a mistake to assume that a good-looking woman must also have good manners.
I suppose it depends on how bad it is, but I’m also bothered when someone’s language, overall demeanor, or behavior is really lacking. That said, I also feel that a truly classy woman probably wouldn’t sign up with a dating club in the first place.
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