I recently asked how I should control my urges.

Thank you for your thoughtful reply. To explain my feelings calmly, I’m using somewhat clinical wording. You said: “While your body is changing as it develops, you may feel anxious, but eventually things will settle at a certain level and you’ll get used to it.” Could you explain in a little more detail what would be considered a moderate or reasonable level? I’m sorry this question is so long, and thank you in advance. I felt that my body had started changing a little, so I had him try it, but... I finish just from being licked, and I also finish when he puts it in and stays still. Even inserting just his fingertip is enough... It’s the same with my nipples... I’m now at the point where I finish even when he licks my back or other parts of my body. So I’m feeling a little confused. As you said, I get wet just from imagining it, and then I end up finishing... “You’re amazing. I’m jealous. You’ve become this sensitive—you’re practically an animal now. You’re my slave.” That’s what he says. Even if those are just flattering words from my papa, I’m a little worried that it feels so good that I might genuinely be unable to get it out of my mind. As long as a man is able to do his job, is it okay if he’s almost constantly thinking erotically otherwise? Doesn’t it interfere with other social activities? Is it the same for women? Could this be from taking in too much ecstasy? Even when I don’t do anything, I remember it and start twitching. *I don’t mean drugs.* To avoid becoming dependent, is it possible to understand the state of my hormones and neurotransmitters in my brain and control them to some extent? If this is possible regardless of gender, I’d really appreciate any advice on how to deal with sexual desire and emotions.