What do papas compare between the girls they’re seeing? I can’t enjoy it when I start thinking they must secretly feel that one girl is cuter or a better match than another… They do rank the girls, right?

I’m Column Writer Flag Maker. I’m only seeing one person now, so it’s not an issue, but in the past I didn’t have the time or energy to compare them. I was too busy trying to remember everything: What kind of work did she do, and what had we talked about before? What did I tell whom? Wait, when was her day off again? When was her busy season at work? Was she more or less sensitive around the nipples? Where was her clitoris again? Wait, did she prefer longer foreplay? What was it? Wait, what foods didn’t she like again? Was the sibling she mentioned before a younger brother or an older brother? And so on. I really didn’t have the time to compare them.

I’m Kazu, a male member. It’s not that one girl is cuter than another. They’re simply different, so there’s no real way to compare them. I don’t intend to compare them anyway. If I ever had to choose, it would probably only be when two of them suggested dates on the same day and at the same time. Even then, it wouldn’t be about which one is cuter—it would depend on my mood. To give an easy example, it’s like deciding whether to go to the Chinese restaurant right in front of you or to a trattoria when you’re hungry. It’s not that Chinese food is better than Italian food; you might just think, “I had pasta yesterday, so maybe I’ll have Chinese today.” I don’t really think in terms of compatibility either, but I do recognize what makes each woman appealing—for example, one is good at oral, while another responds particularly well. You can’t really rank being good at oral versus being responsive. While writing this restaurant analogy, I realized that when I choose where to eat, one of the biggest factors for me is how close or easy to get to the restaurant is from where I am. With women I’m seeing, the ones who are easygoing about meeting up and regularly exchange LINE messages with me naturally end up being the ones I see more often.

I’m Tetsu, a male member. It would be presumptuous of someone like me to rank women. I invite women depending on my mood at the time. When I feel like enjoying a meal, I’ll invite someone whose tastes are similar to mine. When I want to play golf, I’ll invite someone who plays golf. When I want to travel, I’ll invite someone who’s willing to come along. Ideally, I’d find an all-rounder, but women like that are pretty hard to come across. I’m always looking for new stimulation, so I’m constantly filling vacancies (lol)… So I suppose that is a form of ranking(^^ゞ In that case, my answer is that someone’s ranking drops when I no longer feel stimulated by them.