I’m a male member—the one who previously asked about showering together beforehand. Thank you for your answers. I was a little surprised that so many comments simply said they were embarrassed. In reality, I’m often turned down when I ask to shower together because they’re embarrassed, and I’m often asked to dim the lights in bed. I assumed the main reasons were that they didn’t want an older man touching them or didn’t want to see him in bright light, and I expected most of the answers to say something along those lines. I do work out, and I think my stomach is less protruding than average for someone in his 50s, but I’m still just a lecherous old man, no matter how you look at it. So, here’s my question again: During face-to-face positions such as missionary, I find myself thrusting while wondering—perhaps unnecessarily—whether it’s okay to let them see my face when I’m moaning. What do both male and female members think and feel when they’re thrusting or being thrust? Ideally, I’d like to hear answers such as, “I don’t think about that,” or “You’re overthinking it.” Thank you.