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Nov 9, 2020 17:58
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here—I’ll answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
If she uploads them to social media, Twitter, or elsewhere, there’s always a chance that someone you know might happen to see the photos or videos.
If you don’t want that, I think you should simply decline. If you feel bad about refusing, then just enjoy the time together as it is.
You’ve probably had enough life experience to decide for yourself what to do.
Are you going to think about the risks in the future, or choose the enjoyment you can have right now?
I think you already know the answer.
BOOM!!!!
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🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
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Column writer Flagmaker here.
Come to think of it, I once knew a woman who loved snapping photos of me naked. She had me stand against the hotel wall and took full-body shots, then close-ups of me down there.
She edited the nude photos on the spot to make them funny, then laughed herself silly（笑）
Still, because they were obviously nude photos, I never really worried about her posting them on social media. Besides, I’m not a celebrity, and there’s no one to sell the images to.
If you’re going to be photographed, go with 【nude】.
Surprisingly, this might actually help prevent certain problems.
Or maybe that makes things even worse. What do you think?（笑）
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Of course, I think there’s always a chance someone might see them. You should definitely discuss how photos and the like will be handled.
I’d be in trouble if mine were shared too. In my case, people would probably say, “Look at that old man—at his age, and with a young, cute girl... Absolutely outrageous!”
That’s the one thing I want to avoid!
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Another rather confusing question.
The woman you’re seeing has taken photos or videos that include you. The question is whether someone who knows you might happen to see them if she posts them on social media.
That seems to be what you’re asking.
If she posts them publicly, where anyone can view them, there is a chance that someone you know could come across them. If she limits the post to her friends or contacts, there is still a chance someone might see it if you and she have mutual acquaintances.
You’re not worrying unnecessarily. I think you should make sure she’s the kind of person who understands that you shouldn’t post photos of other people on social media without their permission.