Would you end things with a papa (a male supporter) even if the allowance was really good because he was terrible at sex? Aren’t there a lot of guys who are bad at it? By the way, can anyone tell at a glance during the first meeting whether someone will be good or bad? I have a friend who can tell from the shape of that area—I wish I had that ability too.

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. > Aren’t there a lot of people who are bad at it? Haha（笑） In my case, I’m talking about women, but I’ve often found myself thinking, “Wow, she’s really not very good at this.” Because even when she says, “I really tried my best…,” our relationship leaves me thinking, “What part did you try hard at…?” I’d like my generous allowance back（笑） That said, we’re both amateurs, and neither of us has had any real training, so I suppose it can’t be helped to some extent. In my case, even if she’s not good at the intimate side of things, I wouldn’t end things with her for that reason. People can get better with practice. The only thing I look at when deciding whether to end things is whether she’s genuinely engaging with me or not. > Can anyone tell at a first meeting whether someone will be good or bad at it? Not at all（笑）

I’m Marika, a female member. I can put up with things like being inexperienced and not making me feel good, premature ejaculation, or being very small. But if he does anything painful, is rough and clumsy, or gets overly slobbery and makes me uncomfortable, I’ll end things.