Tips Jul 27, 2020 15:34

I’m a male member and the person who previously asked the question at the link below. This time, I’m not asking a question—I’m reporting back to and thanking everyone who gave me advice.

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https:\/\/universe-club.jp\/help\/questions\/view\/4143 Following the advice I received, I paid the standard transportation fare rather than just the actual cost (though I actually used a discounted ticket), and she agreed to the allowance I proposed. The date went smoothly and was completed without any problems. Since Meg had also left some fairly blunt comments, I put various hospitality plans into action, avoided being overly touchy-feely, and even exercised some restraint when it came to intimacy—just once?! I also let her take a nap and use her phone after arriving, and repeatedly told her how grateful I was that she had come. For now, we’ve agreed to meet again after a little while. She contacted me several times after getting home, so I’d like to believe she was being sincere. My overall impression is that the date itself was enjoyable—70 points. Although I felt slightly like she was taking me for granted, I put up with the phone use, even though I can understand the nap. If there’s a next time, I plan to say something about it. Also, the deterioration in both the facilities and service at a fairly well-known hotel was beyond disappointing.
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フラグメーカー
フラグメーカー Male Column Send a reverse offer to this responder
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出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. This is just my personal opinion, but you’re probably better off not telling her off for checking her phone ^^; She’ll almost certainly find it annoying. Personally, when a woman is being considerate and not checking her phone, I’ll get up to use the restroom so she has a chance to look at it, or I’ll encourage her to go ahead and check it. Girls have all kinds of things keeping them busy, too.
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Meg
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Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
I’m Meg, one of the female members. Eek! I only muttered it under my breath, but you actually read it? (sweat) Oh no, oh no… You seem to have been very considerate, but isn’t 70 points pretty darn good? :) I’m rooting for you and hoping this turns into a wonderful arrangement going forward! (*^^*)
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