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Jul 13, 2020 00:02
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I only wanted the amounts between 5,000 and 10,000 yen to follow a log-normal distribution, so the difference in 1,000-yen increments has no particular significance.
I took the answers to mean that this was to avoid being seen as stingy (though some people may see it that way anyway), or because both parties are happy with a lower amount.
I’m sorry I didn’t thank each of you individually.
As a general conclusion, I’ll just say that it’s cool for a man to quietly round to the nearest whole number.
I always find Maezawa-san’s answers detailed and interesting to read.
However, this time, minority and majority opinions were mixed together with whether the money was transportation reimbursement, a gratuity, or an hourly wage including working from home, so I couldn’t tell whether the 5,000-yen difference was considered meaningless or meaningful as a unit price.
I think both interpretations are valid since it depends on the person, but shouldn’t the club take the same position—that a range of 5,000 to 10,000 yen depends on the individual?
With that understanding, I think it would also be fine to make similar comments, such as not hearing about men having to rush to a convenience store to break a bill.
The types of scams and forgotten payments you pointed out may each have their pros and cons, but as you said, if that is what happens in most cases, I feel the men could simply be left to decide without being guided.
Also, as I was writing this, I realized that if the relationship is going to continue for a long time, starting at 5,000 yen would amount to the same margin of error anyway. I understand that this isn’t something to fixate on.
I also never said what I personally would do.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
I thought I was answering as I usually do, but apparently my response didn’t hold together. I’m sorry.
Maybe the issue was that I don’t think there’s any connection between annual income and transportation expenses.
P.S. I used to think, “Surely ¥30,000 is the maximum anyone would pay for dinner only,” while also thinking, “There probably isn’t anyone who pays ¥100,000 just for dinner.” But before I heard about the ¥50,000 example, I hadn’t considered it possible—so I suppose there may be people who pay ¥100,000 after all.
If you think a woman is cute, beautiful, and unlike anyone you’ve ever met before, I agree with completely spoiling her.
Women like that are used to being fawned over in their everyday lives, so unless you go a little above and beyond, you’ll just blend into the crowd of other men.
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会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
Whether it’s ¥5,000 or ¥10,000, either is fine, but if you collected the data, wouldn’t the range probably run from ¥5,000 all the way up to around ¥400,000–¥500,000…?
I think the most common range is probably ¥10,000–¥23,000, though…
P.S. Mac,
As the person asking the question wrote, ¥5,000 to ¥10,000 isn’t really something to get hung up on. There also seem to be plenty of people who give ¥45,000 or more…
Rather than worrying about whether it’s high or low, wouldn’t it be best for the person asking to simply give ¥5,000 at first, let her get to know what you’re like, and then make sure she’s satisfied with the date and the allowance afterward—even if it’s dinner only?
Even when giving the same amount, there are probably ways to do it that feel worthwhile and satisfactory for both sides.
Even if you’re going to give ¥10,000 or more, giving ¥10,000 right from the start can feel a bit anticlimactic—as if today’s date is only worth that much.