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Jun 21, 2020 11:13
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I’m posting both to say thank you and to ask a question. I’m sorry this is so long, but my question is in the final paragraph.
The other day, I asked the following question:
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/3946
Thank you to everyone who took the time to give me such thoughtful answers. I’d been worrying about it on my own, so I was very grateful to receive advice from both men’s and women’s perspectives.
I also learned about the existence of the column through this Q&A section, and I’ve started reading it. I hope to gain a better understanding of men’s feelings and how to navigate these relationships.
I’m truly grateful to each and every one of the people who answered.
Changing the subject, I’m currently registered as Type A. Based on the answers I received, I’d like to change to Type B so that I can have a variety of experiences. This may sound pathetic, but I don’t think I’m ready for Type C at this point.
So my question is: If I change my type, will it appear as the latest information on male members’ pages, like when a comment is updated?
Also, what do men generally think when a woman they’re currently seeing changes her type?
2 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Planning Department here as well.
When you change your dating type, a notice is automatically added to your profile, such as:
“Dating type changed from A to B on June 21.”
And I get the feeling that it stays there permanently.
You’ll also receive a confirmation message from the staff when you change your dating type.
If the staff feel that something seems suspicious, they may write a comment like:
“She has changed her type to B, but we believe she is actually still type A.”
That would defeat the purpose of changing it. However, it usually doesn’t go that far, so additions like that are relatively rare.
Given your situation, I think it would help to write something like this in the comment section, where you can explain things in your own words:
“I originally chose type A because I was a virgin, but I recently had my first experience.
Since then, my outlook has changed a little, and I thought I might be open to gaining more experience, so I decided to change my type.
However, I’ve only been with one person so far, so I’m worried I might turn someone down if they suddenly invite me to take things further. For now, I’d like to try type B and see how it goes.
I’d love for someone kind to show me the ropes.”
If you explain it that way, men will probably understand that there’s a genuine reason behind the change and won’t assume you’re lying.
That said, the man you met when you were type A must have been amazing to go on regular dates with you and patiently wait until you felt ready.
You were amazing for responding to him, too.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
I’m not particularly interested in changes of type, since they don’t appear in the latest updates and, if anything, that’s information I’d rather not know.
I suppose a woman I’m seeing might change from C to B or A, but I don’t think it would happen the other way around.
If she were an A-type, she’d probably withdraw from the club, right?
P.S. Mac-san,
Oh, if we weren’t seeing each other, then yes, that would be fine! Going back and forth, too…
What I meant by saying it wouldn’t happen in reverse was:
If an A-type relationship looked likely to develop into something deeper, the woman would withdraw from the club herself so the relationship could progress.