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Feb 3, 2020 19:22
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I’m Saito, the columnist♪
Since lying can become a hassle, I think it might be okay to tell him—but I can’t say for sure, since apparently there are some troublesome male members too.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
Some men don’t mind if you have a boyfriend, while others do. With that in mind, I think it’s safest to say that you don’t.
As you get to know a man better, you’ll figure out whether he’s the type who’s okay with you having a boyfriend. Once you know that, you could tell him the truth—“Actually…”—six months or a year later. If he doesn’t mind, he won’t mind then either.
But if he does care, he’ll continue to care, so in that case, it may be best to keep it a secret forever.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
I feel like most men who ask, “Do you have a boyfriend?” are happier if you answer, “Nope~.” Maybe they enjoy hearing you say you’re single and then having you dance in the palm of their hand.
On the other hand, most of the men who don’t ask probably think, “I don’t particularly want to know whether she has a boyfriend or not,” so it’s probably best not to bring it up.
You could also tailor your answer to each man. But it might be fun to always stick to saying, “Yes, I do,” and see how differently each man reacts.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
To be perfectly honest, I’d rather she be upfront with me. This is a relationship through a dating club, so our respective positions and purpose are clear, and I don’t see any particular problem with it.
To put it plainly, it would actually reassure me, since it would make it easier for you to end your relationship with me.