Tips Dec 19, 2019 19:21

I’m the female member who asked this morning whether I should tell him about the person I’m serious about.

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I’m very happy that I received responses from Mac and Joe, Universe’s two leading column writers (and thank you as well, of course, Maezawa-san!). However, due to my poor writing skills, it seems my question was interpreted slightly differently than I intended, so I’d like to add a little clarification… I’m the one who might be perceived as taking things too seriously—or as being too much—not the other way around. It’s not that the gentleman is becoming obsessed with me. I’ve been trying to genuinely enjoy our dates and behave in a way that would allow us to continue seeing each other for a long time. But if that comes across as too much even when I’m not actually serious about him, I found myself wondering what I should do.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. If you “genuinely enjoy the dates and act in a way that allows you to keep seeing each other for a long time,” I think that’s simply something men generally want, so I don’t think it would come across as too much. If you’re worried, it might be best to avoid contacting him too much yourself and simply reply promptly when he reaches out. That said, I also feel you probably don’t need to worry about it that much.
2019/12/19 23:03
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I’m BB7, a male member. It doesn’t sound like the men are falling head over heels for you—instead, they find you a bit too intense. But are you not serious about them either? What exactly are you doing? (lol) Messaging them every morning, afternoon, and night? Or bursting into tears and saying you never want to be apart? There are all kinds of men, so I don’t think you need to worry about it. If a man breaks things off because he finds you too intense, you simply weren’t compatible. If anything, I’d be more concerned about a genuinely serious man who’s okay with an intense relationship coming along and becoming truly serious about you.
2019/12/20 13:25
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