I wouldn’t say this is a conscious policy, but in practice, I don’t go on dates unless the woman invites me first. (Or rather, I make time because she asks me to.)

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Some women even seem to get upset about it, and while I can somewhat understand why, I still don’t quite get their mindset. Could someone explain it to me? (I don’t exactly want women to be angry with me either.)

Answer 1

Column writer Saito here♪ I don’t contact him first either, but if he gets angry about that, it’s more trouble than it’s worth, so I think you should just end things. Since you’re doing what you want anyway, it would be more beneficial to develop the mindset not to let it bother you even if he gets upset.

Answer 2

I’m BB7, a male member. I can’t tell whether she’s pouting, putting on an act, or genuinely angry… If she’s pouting, that’s being spoiled; if it’s an act, that’s pandering. But if she’s truly angry, wouldn’t that be pride?

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