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Oct 23, 2019 16:47
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Financial dependence is one thing, but emotional dependence can be overwhelming. Still, simply running away or cutting her off feels heartless…
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I’m Saito, a columnist♪
Things like that aren’t easily resolved.
I’m not using a dating club to become dependent on someone. I want us both to be able to remain independent, so I think I would end the relationship.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
I think that even if she becomes dependent on you, you should simply face it head-on.
In most cases, men have more life experience, so I believe they’re capable of solving these problems.
That said, as all experienced men probably know, apparently all you need to do is listen to her.
I tend to think I have to solve the problem, but apparently that’s not what she wants. (Haha)
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I’m a male member, BB7.
Even if you continue seeing someone while thinking, “This dependence is getting exhausting,” it won’t do either of you any good.
If she’s strategically acting dependent, she’s simply being calculating, so you can leave her alone. But someone who genuinely becomes dependent on you will grow increasingly burdensome over time.
Men who keep seeing them out of guilt, thinking it would be heartless to walk away, are the ones who end up getting hurt.