A common dating mishap (苦笑): If a woman disappears after borrowing money, should she also be reported to the club?
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Just as a man who finishes inside without consent is practically a rapist, I feel that a woman who vanishes with the money is practically a con artist.
※This may not matter, but I get a rather indescribable impression of Joe’s character when I see him write in defense of Mac—even while criticizing his premature actions in bed—after Joe had previously written about his love and resentment toward the “princess” involved in an investment scam in his column.
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
“Please lend it to me” can sometimes really mean “Please give it to me,” so I also wonder whether lending and borrowing can truly be said to exist in dating clubs.
Men judge things not by whether they’ll get it back, but by whether the woman is worth giving it to...
That’s another perspective I wanted to share.
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I’m Rula, a male member of UC and the new salon.
Regarding the question, “Should I report a woman to the club after lending her money at her request and then losing contact with her?” I don’t think you can go so far as to say that he should report her.
If he wants to report her, he can. If the club receives multiple reports like that, they may realize that “this woman seems like a person to avoid,” which could help prevent further people from being 피해.
That said, it would only serve as a precaution for the future. Reporting her doesn’t mean the club will step in and mediate or help resolve that particular case.
So I think it’s fine to report her if he wants to—more at the level of wanting someone to listen to him vent.
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