Tips Oct 8, 2019 06:30

I’m a male member.

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Especially hoping to hear from the women here. Suppose there’s a man you went on a date with once, had a really good impression of, and then became intimate with on the second date, feeling like you could grow close. You enjoyed the dates and were happy with the allowance. However, you just couldn’t manage to schedule a third date, and before you knew it, a long time had passed without seeing each other. Then, about six months after your second date, that man contacts you and asks you out again. In a situation like this, would you think, “Why now?” and have already lost interest, or would you still want to meet and go on a date even after such a long time? I’d like to hear how women generally feel. I’ve made so many offers that I’m now in this situation with about ten women, and it’s becoming a problem. I feel like I have to keep going on regular dates with them, and I’m getting tired. Still, I never imagined I’d be able to get this close with so many cute college students and models in such a short time… I kind of want to brag about it to someone… This is getting bad, lol.
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出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
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I’m in my 30s and a new member. I understand how exhausting it can feel... That said, once you start feeling better, you may find yourself wanting to meet different women—or new ones—again. If you still have the energy, I think it might be best to meet any woman you’re unsure about one more time and continue the relationship, so you won’t regret it later.
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This is Saito♪, your column writer. If you don’t reach out, trying not to inconvenience him, things will simply fade away. Since you have the chance, I think you should contact him and see what happens—it’ll be a good experience either way. Even if he doesn’t reply, you haven’t lost anything. Since he has so many girlfriends, I hope you don’t go overboard trying to be too considerate and end up completely messing up your schedule. Haha.
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well. > I received a message from this man asking me out, about six months after our second date. The first half is written from the woman’s perspective, while the second half is written from the man’s perspective, so I’m not entirely sure I understand. Were you asking whether it would be okay to invite her out now, even though you left her alone for about six months? In any case, if you haven’t seen each other for six months, I don’t think it would make much difference what she thinks of you at this point. You might as well just ask her out.
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