I’m Lula, a male member of UC and a member of the new salon.
Judging from the intent of your question, I imagine it’s something like this:
You started seeing her because she said the money was for her student loans, and you wanted to support her. But then you found out she was actually using it to buy lots of designer goods or pay for cosmetic surgery, which made you feel a little less motivated to support her than you had been at first.
I think this happens fairly often.
In my own experience, someone once told me, “I really want to learn a foreign language, and I’d like some help covering the lesson fees.” I wanted to support her, but then found out the money was being used for designer goods and cosmetic surgery. I was a little surprised.
I mean, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to buy designer goods. In that case, I could suggest, “Why don’t we go look at them together?”
And there’s nothing wrong with wanting cosmetic surgery either. I could say, “I know quite a few plastic surgeons, so I can tell you what to look for when choosing a good clinic.”
What leaves a slightly bad impression is saying something that sounds easy to support, when the real reason is completely different.
As you continue seeing each other, I think your true self will naturally come out. So personally, I’d be happy if you could tell me your honest reasons from the beginning, if possible.
That said, there was one time when someone honestly told me, “I want money so I can go on a trip with my boyfriend,” and I immediately shut things down… (laughs)
Column writer Saito here♪
Hmm... what were they again?
Study-abroad expenses, student loan repayments... There were about three, right?
Among the women I date, there are entertainers earning just under ¥20 million, and quite a few women earning around ¥10 million.
Of course, those are gross figures, and their take-home pay makes things rather tough. Even just living in a reasonably secure apartment can be fairly expensive for a beautiful woman.
On the other hand, you also come across women who can’t even pay their rent and rely heavily on papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)—though I’m not involved with them.
There are all kinds of female members, and there seem to be as many dramas as there are members.
