I’ve met around 16 men so far, and I’ve turned down about six of them...
The reasons include not discussing the allowance, being discriminatory toward women, or simply being unable to find a date for our next meeting that works for both of us.
So, I don’t personally feel that I’m misrepresenting my type.
However, if the club continues to receive negative feedback, does that mean I’ll be considered the one at fault?
Some of the men I’ve met several times have continued seeing me on a monthly arrangement for over a year...
It’s been on my mind, so I thought I’d ask.
Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
For Relationship Type C, we set the likelihood of things progressing to an ongoing relationship at 50%.
Even if you turned down six out of 16 people, the likelihood of things progressing after dinner would still be 62.5%, so I don’t think there’s any problem.
The reasons you gave are understandable as well. You shouldn’t be accused of fraud over this, so I think you can rest assured.
That said, one thing does concern me:
“I simply can’t find a time to meet again.”
If you’re turning everyone down after the first dinner, then you’re not Relationship Type C—you’re Relationship Type B.
In that case, it may be considered that your relationship type is incorrect.
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I’m BB7, a male member in his late 40s.
Women have the right to turn someone down at a dating club, so you haven’t done anything wrong.
Some misguided male members may give feedback saying, “She misrepresented her type!” But I don’t think the club would simply take that at face value and immediately lower the woman’s rating.
If you’re concerned, you could also submit feedback about the date with that man in the club’s survey.
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