I only registered recently, and although I had heard that members aren’t allowed to contact staff privately, I couldn’t bring myself to refuse a staff member who said they would be looking after me, so we exchanged contact information. However, I’m getting fed up with messages from this staff member that seem unrelated to offers. I worked up the courage to register with this club, and I understand that offers depend on timing, but when things like this happen, I start to worry that the staff member may be doing it deliberately. Wouldn’t it be better if female members were assigned female staff and male members were assigned male staff, to prevent situations like this from happening? I apologize for the long message.