Maezawa from the President’s Office here—I’ll answer as well.
Most women want money. But if money were all they wanted, there would be plenty of other ways to earn it. I think they register with Universe because they also want something extra.
That something varies from person to person: meeting a man they can trust, enjoying time with someone who shares their interests, or experiencing an adult world they can’t discover with men their own age.
Without that added element, many women probably don’t want it to be about money alone. Men, too, generally aren’t very fond of women who are interested only in money.
One thing I don’t want you to misunderstand is that men who have the means consider paying money perfectly normal, and they understand that’s what Universe Club is about.
So there’s no need to worry about wanting money—it’s completely normal.
That said, some men are attracted to modesty. During dinner, make sure you take the time to judge what kind of man he is. If you feel he’s someone you won’t need to ask directly, you could try saying, when the allowance comes up:
“I’ll leave it up to you.”
Some men may really like you for saying that. (Of course, whether they enjoyed the conversation during dinner beforehand is important, so the line alone won’t win someone over.)
If the man likes you, you’ll probably receive a satisfactory allowance, and may also receive various gifts.
The problem is that some men won’t offer an allowance you’re happy with. If you feel he’s that kind of person, I think it’s better to clearly tell him the amount you’re comfortable with.
Even if you don’t manage to judge a man correctly, you’ll gradually gain more experience in figuring them out.
I’m Rula, a male member of UC and a member of the new salon.
Wanting to build a relationship based on mutual trust and wanting financial support are not contradictory at all.
You can connect emotionally, spend time together like a real couple, and build a genuine relationship of trust—while also receiving financial support.
Isn’t a dating club meant to be a place where that kind of happiness can exist?
