Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu here.
This may sound extremely rude, but if you’re a completely passive woman in bed, some men may decide not to see you again.
That said, there are ways to address it.
You simply need to get better at acting. If you can make it really convincing, I don’t think men will be able to tell whether it’s genuine.
Many men on Universe have been with over 100 women, so they might be able to see through you. However, a man with that much experience might also see your earnestness as a plus.
Poor acting is easy to spot, though, so you need to develop your skills to the point where you’re absolutely certain you won’t be found out.
Giving up is easy, but I think you should try to identify the cause and take steps to improve the situation.
Good luck.
I’m Lula, a male member of UC and a member of the new salon.
First of all, since you only registered last month and have already received around three offers, I think you should be confident!
As for things not continuing after meeting someone, I don’t think you should overthink it.
I’ve met around 30 women through Universe Club and salon, but only a few of them became ongoing arrangements. Many ended after just the first meeting.
And it’s not as though there was anything particularly unpleasant about the women I didn’t meet a second time. It was simply a matter of “just because” or “the feeling wasn’t quite there.”
(As far as I can remember, there were only two women who made me think, “Oh, I really don’t like this,” such as by lacking basic manners as working adults（笑）.)
So, even when the woman has done nothing wrong, it’s not unusual for things not to lead to a second meeting for no particular reason. That’s why I don’t think it’s very constructive to wonder, “What did I do wrong?”
(There wasn’t necessarily anything wrong with you in the first place…)
You only need to focus on the basics you can check for yourself: whether you treated your partner with gratitude, arrived on time, responded promptly to messages, and so on. If you’re doing those things, I think it’s best to consider the rest a matter of chemistry and fate.
I hope your next meeting leads to something more☆
