I’m a gold member. The person I see regularly used to give me 80,000 yen for dinner plus an adult relationship afterward.

I’m Saito, the column writer♪ What are the terms like? I imagine there are various factors, such as the time involved and things like “raw” or “inside,” but overall, it sounds pretty reasonable to me. It may also be helpful to see how other men have evaluated offers from you.

Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu here. You may be wondering whether the amount you’re receiving is high or low, but I don’t think there’s much point in worrying about that. The amount the two of you agree on can vary. If a man really likes a woman, he may pay what seems like a lot simply because he likes her. If not, the amount may be lower. A man’s financial situation also plays a role. Even if you calculated an average, it’s entirely possible that very few people would actually receive that average amount. If you’re satisfied with what you’re receiving, I think you should value that man. If you feel it’s too little, you could discuss it with him or look for someone else. As for personal experiences, I’ll leave that to the members to share.