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Jul 27, 2019 11:34
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The other day, I had a date arranged with a very gentlemanly man who was not registered in Tokyo.
As usual, I requested my usual allowance, and he agreed to the amount I asked for at the time.
However, after the date, he told me that he had met women from Black tiers outside Tokyo as well as the Tokyo Black tier, and was surprised that my requested amount was so high.
I know that I’m not in the Black tier, so I don’t think he meant any harm, but I felt as though he was indirectly saying, “Your requested amount is high even though you’re not Black.” I’ve also met various gentlemen and asked them how much allowance they had offered women in the past, and in Tokyo, I don’t think the number of women receiving around the same amount as me is particularly small. However, since the Tokyo Black tier is apparently not considered that high-level, I wondered whether the women themselves may not see themselves as being in a higher class based on their age and appearance, and therefore set their allowances relatively low.
I’m grateful that the staff kindly registered me in a class one level below, but would it be difficult to improve my class in the future? I’m sorry that my thoughts aren’t very well organized, but I look forward to your reply.
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To begin with, there are so many men and women in the Kanto area that competition is fierce, and there are plenty of temptations as well. Because of that, even an average-looking woman—or one who isn’t particularly high-level—may be offered a substantial amount.
Women also tend to receive plenty of offers, so some become more demanding.
(Of course, the opposite can happen too.)
So perhaps you feel that women at regional clubs are more attractive and more humble.
Think of the Kanto area as a whole zoo with all kinds of people.
P.S. 1
Rather than viewing the club lowering your class by one level as an act of goodwill, I think it would be better to assume they felt that matching two people from the lowest class might be difficult.
P.S. 2
If it were me, I’d pay the amount she initially asked for and then end things there.
Perhaps that man would have wanted to continue seeing her if the amount had been just a little lower…
But I can’t really say, since I don’t know your specific appearance or the amount involved.
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This is getting a little hard to follow, but you’re talking about the amount of the allowance, right?
If so, when you say:
> He said he’d met women in the Black class outside Tokyo and in Tokyo, but was surprised by how high the amounts they requested were.
That means he was surprised because the amount you requested was higher than what other women had asked for, correct?
However, you said:
> I’ve met various men and asked them how much allowance they had offered women in the past.
So you understand your amount to be about the same as what other women receive, right?
You may have assumed it was because of the class you were assigned to, but I don’t think that’s the case.
I suspect the women that man had dated before simply happened to ask for lower allowances. Alternatively, perhaps he was such a good man that the women felt they’d be fine with a lower allowance in his case.
So, in this particular situation, I don’t think the class assignment and the allowance are related.
That said, as another respondent mentioned, women who would normally be in the Black class are ranked as Platinum in the Kanto area, which leads to a flood of offers.
Because of supply and demand, women also tend to receive higher allowances there, since there are more men who can afford to pay them.
To improve the situation, it seems the women currently ranked as Platinum would need to be moved to Black, reducing the number of offers they receive compared with now.