I’m a male member.

My question is about how to enjoy a dating club. I’m still experimenting with different approaches, and lately I’ve been enjoying seeing women change—for example, “improving the response time of women who are slow to reply.” My thinking is that perfect women have too much competition and aren’t easy on the wallet. Women who look good but are slow to respond may receive new offers, but they aren’t able to maintain them. If they want an ongoing relationship, I feel they also need to make some effort themselves. As for the know-how behind improving someone’s response time, I’ll share that on another occasion. My question is: Have you ever had an experience where, over the course of an ongoing relationship, the woman you were seeing changed—for the better? If so, I’d love to hear about it. So far, I’ve tried the following: ・A woman with a great personality but an average appearance I paid for her makeup, salon visits, and clothes, and she ended up looking like a completely different person. ・A slightly curvy woman After dinner, at the hotel, once we’d done what we needed to do, I had her work out like she was with a personal trainer. She was happy when her abs started to show a little. That’s about as far as I’ve gotten.