How closely can staff monitor a registered woman’s “motivation to participate” in real time? It seems difficult, but from the offer side, I feel it’s a pretty decisive factor—probably even more so than the allowance settings.

If your club has any methods or ideas for dealing with this, I’d love to hear them. Somewhere before, I saw a staff member named Takita ask a woman, “Do you have the strong resolve to keep wanting a papa?” That line has stayed with me ever since. Unlike men, whose desire to pursue a sugar baby is replenished day after day by their own urges, women’s motivation running out is probably one of the biggest uncertainties—and one of the hardest things to detect in advance. I imagine there are quite a few women whose spirits are worn down after meeting just two or three older men (or even elderly men). Sometimes, the moment I meet someone, it’s immediately obvious: “Ah, she came, but she’s already lost the motivation to take things any further.” In cases like that, I might honestly be better off if she simply turned down the offer. Men, for better or worse, usually adjust themselves to be at peak excitement on the day of the meeting, so the mismatch can turn into a truly bittersweet comedy, lol. I’m a man in my late forties, pursuing this while aspiring (or maybe just fantasizing, lol) to become the kind of man who can lift a woman’s spirits the moment they meet.