Maezawa answers.
> Do you ever wonder, “Why is this person getting offers?”
Actually, yes, sometimes I do.
For example, when I see a woman who gets around three offers in the month she registers, I find myself wondering what she’s like if she seems reasonably popular.
Looking at her photos, she seems quite attractive, but sometimes I still think, “Is she really attractive enough to get three offers in her first month?” Then I wonder if maybe her video is better than her photos. But even after checking the video, I end up thinking, “It’s not bad, but maybe that’s not it either.”
I assume the staff comments must say something amazing, but when I read them, they’re pretty ordinary too. Her occupation doesn’t seem to be a factor either, so in the end, I can’t figure out why.
I figure she must simply have been the type the male members prefer. Then, when I check her class at the end, I see:
“Huh? I thought she was Gold, but she’s Standard?”
“Oh, that’s it! Haha.”
Sometimes it’s the same with someone I thought was Platinum but turned out to be Gold, or someone I thought was Black but was actually Platinum.
I sometimes wonder whether the male members make offers for the same reason.
Maybe they enjoy discovering someone unexpected?
> What are the men looking for from me?
That depends on the person, but I think some want to get to know you better, while others hope you’ll be just as you appeared in your photos.
Even so, it’s difficult to prepare for something like that, so I think it’s best to treat them the way you would treat a romantic partner.
The fact that you’re thinking about what the man wants from you and trying to make him feel welcome already shows how considerate you are. I think the man who made the offer made the right choice.
I’m sure he’ll feel that he had a good time with you.
Aizawa here.
When our staff selects someone, it’s because we believe there’s a good chance she’ll receive offers, so there’s no need to be surprised when they come in!
That said, it’s also true that some women receive more offers than expected.
You could say it’s because she has a refined, classy look, if you really tried to find a reason. But every now and then, I do wonder, “Even though there are other women with a similar elegant style, what was it about this particular woman that resonated so strongly with him?”
Luck probably plays a part too, but I think successful women also have a perspective that’s unique to them.
I haven’t seen you, the person asking the question, so I can’t say for sure. But perhaps you’re exceptionally attractive, or maybe you have hobbies or special skills that spark interest in a way other women’s don’t. I’m sure there’s some reason that can be found.
The men are making offers because they want to talk with you, so I think it’s more than enough to simply keep in mind that you want them to enjoy themselves and consider their feelings as well!!
