I’m a Type B dater. If I meet a wonderful man, would it be okay for me to invite him to spend more time together that same day? I’d like to know how men feel about this. Could you also give me some advice on how a woman can make a smooth, tasteful invitation?

I’m Saito, a column writer♪ “I’d like us to get a little closer” should work perfectly well. Good luck!

Maezawa here. > If I meet him and find him attractive, would it be okay for me to make the first move that same day? Absolutely. That said, some men have decided not to make a move on the first day. So first, you need to figure out what type of man he is. Men who are willing to make a move right away usually reveal it through the things they say during the conversation. If he doesn’t seem to be hinting at anything like that, it’s probably best to assume he’s the type who doesn’t make a move on the first day and wait for him to initiate. Even in that case, though, I think you should let him know that you like him, and you should also make plans to meet again. I’m not really sure what a smooth way for a woman to make the first move would be, so you may want to wait for answers from others.