Is it just a misguided fantasy to think that if I register as an A, carefully choose only the men who are still genuinely drawn to me and make an offer, and then, if I come to trust him and really like him, allow an adult relationship, he’ll be so moved that he’ll cherish me??

Maezawa here. I think that’s a valid way of looking at it. In fact, a man would probably be happy if he were able to develop an adult relationship with a woman who initially chose Type A. That said, there are men who will treat you well even without going that far. It might be worthwhile to learn how to tell during a meal whether a man is one of them. Once you get better at judging men, you may be able to recognize whether a man will treat you well even if you’re looking for Type B.