I’m a male member.

I’m Saito♪, a columnist. ① Take longer to reply to messages. ② See her less often and leave more time between meetings. ③ Try making a slightly more demanding request. ④ Give her a larger allowance. (Only effective with intelligent women.) That’s more or less the same as what the questioner described. Haha. That said, only a small number of people actually start disliking someone or finding the relationship bothersome after they’ve begun seeing each other. In many cases, things simply never develop into a relationship in the first place.