Does it make a bad impression if you haven’t made a reservation for the first meeting?
I’ve been stood up twice before. Fortunately, the restaurants kindly waived the cancellation fees, but lately I’ve been hesitant to make reservations because of the risk of being stood up again.
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
I used to struggle with this issue too.
Once, a woman canceled at the last minute even though I had told her the restaurant in advance. The club staff knew how expensive the place was and apologized profusely.
Since then, I’ve started choosing the restaurant after she arrives. A one-Michelin-star restaurant is usually easy enough to book, especially with the economy being so sluggish.
Of course, I would never make multiple reservations and then cancel at the last minute—that would be rude. But celebrities and TV announcers I have ongoing arrangements with cancel at the last minute all the time.
Still, I support them so they can properly seize those opportunities. In the end, if I eat alone and order a bottle of DRC as an apology, there’s no problem. If I drink with the restaurant staff and create a good atmosphere, they actually appreciate it.
Oh, I answered even though I wasn’t one of the people being asked to respond.
Female writers, please answer as well.
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