Maezawa here, answering as well.
When you say “closeted Type A,” you mean she’s misrepresenting her dating type, right?
We’ve been tightening our screening interviews for several years now in an effort to eliminate dating-type fraud. However, with so much information circulating online, it’s proving quite difficult.
Even so, eliminating dating-type fraud remains our top priority internally.
That said, a woman whom one man judges to be a closeted Type A may actually be receiving positive feedback from other men and enjoying consensual relationships with them.
A dating type is ultimately just an indication of a woman’s level of initiative. Naturally, after meeting someone, she may decide she isn’t interested if he isn’t her type. If he wasn’t able to win her over, the way she turns him down may sound very much like a Type A response.
She won’t say, “I’m turning you down because I don’t like you.” Sometimes she may think that saying she’s dinner only (no intimacy) will spare the other person’s feelings.
> I’m aware that Type B is essentially for people who enjoy a make-believe romance game.
This may sound harsh, but if you want to enjoy Type B, I’d like you to approach it with the mindset that you should be able to win over even a closeted Type A.
Even with a closeted Type A, if you make full use of your strengths as a man, things may develop into a consensual relationship from the very first day.
For example, Don Juan of Kishu wrote:
> “Is ¥300,000 for one time too expensive? If you consider it as ¥300,000 or ¥400,000 after going to the club three times and reaching an agreement with her, I think that’s a reasonable price, not an outrageous one.”
Everyone enjoys things differently, but it certainly makes an impact.
A woman you thought was a closeted Type A may actually be receptive depending on how you approach her.
If you want to enjoy the process, you can think creatively, figure out how to win her over, and devise various strategies. In that sense, you may actually start enjoying yourself even before meeting her.
> You no longer have the time to search for a single rough diamond among the ever-growing jumble of stones at the quarry, do you?
People who feel that way should probably choose Dating Type C. I don’t understand why they would deliberately choose Type B.
Even with Dating Type C, there’s a 50% chance you’ll be turned down, so if you let your guard down, the meeting may still end with dinner only.
In that sense, I think Type C can be enjoyable too.
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I’m not someone you asked to answer, but I just wanted to add a quick comment.
You’re a Type B, right?
This isn’t necessarily a matter of pros and cons, but as papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) has become more widespread, many women at Universe Club have really come up with various ways to handle things.
One woman once let this slip while she was drunk:
“When I have dinner with a man for the first time, I mention that I’ve had adult relationships (intimate) with about three people I’ve met, so he won’t suspect I’m only interested in tea or dinner. If you casually imply, ‘I do have adult relationships too,’ it should be fine.”
No matter how beautiful she was, I remember feeling that she was an extremely low-quality person.
> Hidden Type A women only leave male members who make offers with unreasonable disappointment, while seriously undermining the rational use of their time, money, and emotional energy.
I think quite a few male members feel that way. Still, I imagine it must be extremely difficult to distinguish between them.
