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Sep 14, 2024 15:02
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In that situation, who do you think has higher priority: the person he accidentally called you by, or the person whose name he actually said?
If it’s the person he was with, maybe it’s because he felt comfortable and at ease with her.
On the other hand, if he accidentally called you by his wife’s name, perhaps it means he still subconsciously has feelings for his wife.
I feel like either interpretation could be possible. What do you think?
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
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It was just a slip of the tongue, so you can’t really tell where you stand in his priorities.
As Kazu-san says, if he’s been calling his wife by her name for 20 years or so since they got married, it’s become a habit—and he’s getting a little forgetful too, lol. Please forgive your papa (a male supporter) for mixing up his words.
I’ve never had him get my name wrong, but when talking about various episodes, women who are seeing multiple papas will often say things like, “Fuu-san, you said ○○ the other day, didn’t you?”
And I’m like, “Uh, I have no idea what you’re talking about.”
But I don’t really worry about it. I just think, “Oh, she got mixed up. So that’s what another papa said, huh?” lol
Age: Private
👨 Male
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I don’t think mixing up someone’s name has anything to do with “priority,” and that priority can change depending on the situation.
For example, when he’s feeling horny and wants sex, his compensated dating partner may be a higher priority than his spouse. But when it comes to avoiding conflict, his spouse is probably the higher priority more often than not.
I think calling someone by the wrong name is often simply because he says the other person’s name more frequently. It’s probably just become a habit.