What should a woman do if she finds the experience unbearable once she enters the room for the first time? Since it’s difficult to say, about one in four women endures it until the very end and then leaves without explaining why.

This is especially common with older men who have trouble getting aroused. Because of their pride, many end up thinking, “I can’t leave until I finish, no matter what.” Some instead feel that they have to make it up to her by bringing her to climax. The harder they try, the more tense they become and the longer it takes, so ironically, I lose interest, become dry, and end up feeling sore… I want them to understand, without hurting their feelings, that reaching climax isn’t the goal. Is that really impossible? They’re kind people, so it feels like a shame to part ways with them.