Tips Aug 28, 2024 01:52

I’m very sorry to direct a question specifically to one person, but I have a question for Mac.

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I’ve been reading your columns for some time and have quietly supported you as a fan. I believe you once mentioned in an answer to a previous question that a woman you were seeing would be appearing in adult videos. From what I’ve gathered from your columns, you support the women you’re involved with in many ways—not only financially, but emotionally and physically as well. Above all, you’ve always seemed to genuinely care about their well-being. That’s why I was surprised that you would accept a woman’s decision to take such a personally risky step as appearing in adult videos. Was there a particular reason or feeling behind it? Of course, it’s ultimately her personal decision, and you could simply say that you let her make her own choice. If you’re comfortable sharing, I’d love to hear about the circumstances and any inner conflict you may have experienced. It’s been very lonely seeing the column updates stop—not only yours, Mac’s, but everyone’s. I look forward to reading more exciting stories from you all someday.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
There are probably close to ten girls I know who have appeared in AV, though I haven’t actually counted, so I have no idea which one she’s talking about… More importantly, I’m honestly surprised that the questioner has such a Showa-era prejudice against AV. I’m not saying that sarcastically. But isn’t there plenty to question in the idea that it’s fine for a girl to do papa-katsu, but appearing in AV is unacceptable because it’s risky—and that accepting it means you don’t care about girls? That part is sarcasm. Personally, I respect girls’ freedom to make their own decisions. More than anything, I strongly feel that, as a papa-katsu papa, I’m in no position to interfere when I’m not even their actual parent. Who do I think I am? There are also girls who do AV but don’t do papa-katsu, right? I’ve never met one, but couldn’t you say that’s more respectable in a way? Sorry, my wording got pretty harsh. That would probably be my answer, but since it sounds a bit unfriendly, I’ll share what I know about the current AV industry. The fees vary enormously. Even now, girls appearing in DVDs sold on Amazon can earn a seven-figure amount in yen for a single title. I know two people who did. At the lower end, apparently there’s a well-known place in Nagoya that pays around 10,000 yen for filming someone urinating in a toilet. I imagine quite a few papa-katsu girls in Nagoya have done that. That said, some girls apply specifically wanting to do that, only to be told, “You’d be better suited for this,” and then get introduced to a production company in Tokyo, where they appear for a seven-figure fee—up to 5 million yen in the highest case I’ve heard of. So I suppose the two sides are connected through referral commissions, much like the relationship between Universe and smaller clubs affiliated with Patron. Even the idea of cherishing women, especially papa-katsu girls, doesn’t necessarily mean the same thing to everyone. There’s clearly a huge difference between the questioner and me. I’m not saying my stance is the correct one at all. The feeling of “cherishing” someone can be unwanted interference from their perspective. Or they might snap back, “If you care that much, then become my real family.” Everyone’s different. The ideal amount of distance that men—especially papas—have in mind may actually be pretty stressful for women. “Cherishing” someone is surprisingly difficult.
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