The other day, while communicating with a staff member before the first meeting, I asked them to tell the gentleman something. However, the staff member decided it would be better not to mention it and didn’t tell him.

I’m not the person you were hoping would answer, but Maezawa here. > I asked the staff to tell the gentleman, “Please pass this on to him,” but the staff decided it would be better not to mention it and didn’t tell him. Normally, if you ask us to pass something on, we do. Was it something particularly unusual? If it was a standard matter, I believe it would have been conveyed to him as is, since we ask about these things during the interview. > If you had to choose between “I want him to be honest with me” and “I want him to keep lying and hiding it from me forever,” which would you choose? On the surface, this is really a choice between only one option. From the man’s perspective, both amount to the same thing. It depends on what you want. If you think continuing to lie forever would be painful, then you should tell him. If you’re good at playing a role, then I think it’s fine to keep up the lie. That said, being honest may lead to the relationship ending, while intending to keep up the lie may also end the relationship if you’re found out.