Maezawa here.
> Is there no way for a woman to find out whether she has received any negative feedback?
If you ask which branch you’re registered with, they will usually tell you.
However, both men and women are asked in the feedback form whether their comments may be shown to the other person. If that option is set to “no,” they may not be able to tell you even if negative feedback was submitted.
That said, if you call them directly, you may be able to get a general sense of things from the nuances of their response. If there was negative feedback, you might be able to tell from the way the staff member answers.
> After that, offers suddenly stopped for over a month.
That can happen naturally, but it’s also possible that the staff raised your class level.
For example, you received three offers soon after registering, so they may have assumed your class had been set incorrectly and moved you up.
There isn’t much you can do from your side in that case, but try asking the staff:
“I’d like to receive more offers. Is there anything I can do to get more?”
Since you’re saying you want more offers, they may decide to lower your class. (Even then, they won’t tell you directly; they’ll just give you general advice such as what you should try.)
By the way, you haven’t been late, slow to reply, or complained to the staff, have you?
Something that surprised me recently was that a woman sent the staff feedback saying, “This date was really difficult. I wish they had done more of this.”
The staff internally labeled her as a complainer (they didn’t write that in the comments, so that part is fine) and removed her profile from the women’s list.
Looking at what she wrote, her wording was a little harsh, but she was simply expressing what she would have liked them to do. I couldn’t help wondering why it came to that.
That staff member must have taken it particularly badly.
Personally, I think the staff were in the wrong here, but within the branch, the staff member’s response was considered justified. So you may want to be careful to avoid anything like that happening.
In cases like this, even if you inquire, there’s a good chance they won’t tell you that your profile has been hidden.
This is also one of the reasons I feel that things have recently become too biased toward the men.
