I’m a male member who wants to tap “That’s lovely” rather than simply liking the anonymous question box and the people who answer it.
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I have a question about invitations after dinner.
Since I imagine the amount varies from person to person, I’ll set that aside for now.
When I invite someone and she says, “Whatever you feel is appropriate,” I can’t help but be generous—although I don’t recall anything particularly good coming of it, I’ve never regretted it.
Which of the following do you generally do?
1. Decide on the amount in advance
2. Increase or decrease it depending on the date and what you do together
Also, for those who choose option 2, I’d appreciate it if you could share what kinds of situations lead you to increase or decrease the amount, or any factors you use to make that judgment.
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
I see...
When someone says, “Whatever you feel is appropriate,” I feel like I might end up adding a little extra too. Haha.
I often get that feeling myself...
It’s like the urge to order one too many bottles of champagne at a club.
And later on, I sometimes find myself thinking,
“Why did I give so much to a woman like that...?”
What I always try to keep in mind is:
“How much would I give her the next time we meet? Would I want to continue seeing her?”
When you’re together, with her right there in front of you,
it’s easy to end up spending more than you intended.
Once, after being introduced to a certain entertainment-industry woman through Universe, we hit it off so well that I treated her to a seven-figure meal. The next time, she asked me for an eight-figure job.
That taught me that going overboard isn’t a good idea.
(I’m sure the Universe staff know which woman I mean.)
There was also a woman I sent a seven-figure gift to after meeting her only once. The next time we met, she raised her rate significantly—right before we were about to...
(I’m sure the Universe staff know which woman I mean.)
So I’d like to cheer on the male members who are taking on a challenge with women like that even now. Haha.
(Of course, I’m the one who went overboard. I’m sure things are going well for everyone else.)
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