I’m a female member. If the other person tells me his real name from the first meeting, should I tell him mine too? Since he told me his real name, I ended up telling him just my first name. Was that okay? Should I have kept it to myself after all?

I’ll answer as well. If a man tells you his real name, he probably wants to know yours too. However, that doesn’t mean you’re obligated to tell him your real name. I think it’s a little different if you were the one who asked for his real name. If you asked, and he answered, then I feel it’s only polite to share yours as well. That said, since you’re asking this question, I assume you didn’t really want to give him your real name. If that was how you felt, you could have simply continued using your club name. If you’re concerned about it, it may be better not to tell him even your first name. On the other hand, if you felt sharing it would bring you closer—or you wanted to become closer—you could choose to tell him. This isn’t specific to Universe, but generally speaking, men can sometimes become stalkers when you try to end things. It doesn’t matter whether the man is wealthy or holds a high position; it can happen to anyone. If you’ve already given him your real name, things could become difficult. In general, knowing someone’s real name and date of birth makes it easy to track them down. There are many wonderful encounters, but I recommend keeping the risks in mind as you proceed.

This is Saito, the columnist ♪ I believe everyone is ultimately responsible for their own choices, so I don’t intend to tell anyone what they should or shouldn’t do. You can tell him if you want, but it’s also fine not to. I’ve heard of men who secretly look through a woman’s wallet while she’s in the shower, as well as men who set up hidden cameras. A male member who immediately gives you his real name may not necessarily be well-known, so please remain aware of the risks when dealing with someone like that. Although the relationship between a man and a woman—and their financial standing—may appear equal, it is by no means truly equal. Even if things seem to be going well, problems can arise when the relationship ends. Please be extremely cautious. He is probably a wonderful man who is safe 99% of the time, but that remaining 1% can lead to losing everything.