I’m worried about the risk of contracting an STI, so I’d like to have an adult relationship (intimate) with female members that consists of a meal plus no kissing or foreplay. If anyone feels the same way, how do you handle it?

Then why not do paid socializing for dinner, and go to a high-end soapland or upscale delivery service for sex? If you use a condom and have them do it right away, I think they’d probably agree. But I imagine the women here would hate being treated as nothing more than a hole (a “lucky hole”). Condoms lower the risk of STIs, but you can still catch one. Mucous membrane contact with skin or hands can still happen, you know. The fun is going down on her and watching her twitch and climax, lol. It’d be a waste not to enjoy that part. Today I had an incredibly fun and satisfying session—from plenty of foreplay to going down on her and making her climax, and then finishing together. This is Fuu. Sorry for bragging.

Huh? Is there really any point in joining a dating club?? I don’t get it… With an inexperienced woman, it’s natural for things like foreplay or oral sex to be awkward or not happen at all. But from the man’s side, shouldn’t he at least make an effort to set the mood, including for foreplay and beyond? Sure, if the atmosphere gets her excited, she might be ready right away, but I don’t think that’s possible in such a short-term relationship. I feel like that kind of thing needs to develop over a long period of dating. That said, if you happen to meet a woman like the person asking this question, whose only clear objective is the allowance, then maybe it could be possible… How do you even come to understand each other about that…?

You’re certainly keeping busy switching back and forth between men and women. I can’t understand your particular preferences at all, but I get the impression that many women would actually be pleased if you told them you don’t like blowjobs and would rather they not do that. Someone who used to work at a soapland would probably have no problem with using lube and going straight to penetration. You should try looking for a woman who has left that line of work.