It’s been a little over three weeks since I registered with this club, but I haven’t heard a thing. I’d heard that offers often don’t come right away, but I’ve posted comments and photos as well... I’ve also sent out reverse offers. Is it really difficult to receive offers unless you’re a woman in her 30s or younger, with a good figure and a glamorous job such as modeling or being a flight attendant? As for me, I have an average-looking face, I’m slightly chubby, and I work as a receptionist—just an ordinary person.
If my appearance made it unlikely that I’d receive any offers, I almost wish they had simply rejected me from the start. Since I had been looking forward to it, I can’t help feeling disappointed. I’m not expecting anything anymore, though. I suppose it’s natural that men would want to support younger women.
Is papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) really something only a small handful of women can do...?
I’m sorry the latter half turned into a rant.
I’d appreciate any responses, no matter what you have to say.
I’m Ishizaki, a staff member, and I’d like to answer as well.
As you understand, it’s not very common to receive an offer immediately after registering.
That said, it’s not true that offers only go to women in their 30s or younger who have great figures and glamorous careers, such as modeling or working as a flight attendant.
Men’s preferences are incredibly diverse—so much so that even I’m sometimes surprised. There are beautiful women in their early 20s with glamorous jobs who receive no offers at all, while women in their 40s with perfectly ordinary looks and careers may receive offers.
I may have mentioned this during your interview, but even the staff have no idea when or who will receive an offer.
That said, the staff conducting interviews only accept women they believe are likely to receive offers. The staff member who interviewed you presumably came to the same conclusion and decided to accept you.
If you have any concerns or would like to discuss anything, it may be a good idea to contact the branch where you had your interview.
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Maezawa here.
Some women in their 40s still receive plenty of offers.
That said, they tend to look younger in their photos—more like they’re in their late 20s or early 30s.
To be blunt, considering that you describe yourself as having an average face and a slightly chubby figure, offers may not come right away.
However, our staff only accepts women when they believe at least one offer is likely to come through. We can’t say for sure whether you’ll receive an offer—about half of the women don’t—but I hope you’ll wait patiently.
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