Tips Jun 5, 2019 03:50

There’s no place to share an update and thank everyone who gave me answers and advice, so I’m posting it here. (Since this is somewhat outside the purpose of the anonymous question box, you don’t have to publish it.)

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Looking back at the questions I asked, I feel a little embarrassed, but I’d like to express my gratitude to the people who answered me sincerely, despite having nothing to gain from doing so, and to the site for being broad-minded enough to publish such rude questions as, “I can’t find a mistress. Is this really a dating club?” Here’s what I did: ・Made offers to several women at the same time I had already been doing this, so I also: ・Reconsidered the allowance amount I tried offering slightly more than the amount the women requested. The response was very money-minded. This isn’t something that can be generalized, but I suspect that the amount women take the trouble to name is not their “desired amount,” but rather the minimum they can accept without risking rejection. Women probably don’t want to be rejected any more than men do. I simply hadn’t considered things from the women’s perspective. As for the bonus question about wanting to change branches, rather than switching without saying anything, I told my current branch, “I’m confused because it seems my requests aren’t getting through, and I’m not receiving appropriate answers,” and they’re currently handling it. After writing this much, I suppose I’m no longer really “anonymous”...
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I’ll answer as Maezawa as well. > I tried adding a little to the amount the woman requested. > Her reaction was very matter-of-fact. > This isn’t something that can be standardized, but it seems likely that the amount a woman finally works up the courage to name isn’t her “desired amount,” but rather the minimum she can accept without risking rejection. I don’t think that’s the whole story, but we’re all human, and sometimes you can sense those feelings from a woman. And I think people who can do that are really admirable. > As for the additional question about changing branches, I didn’t just switch without saying anything. I told my current branch, “I’m confused because my requests don’t seem to be getting through, and I haven’t been receiving appropriate responses,” and they’re currently dealing with it. This time, it came up when I searched for it. (笑) I hope talking directly helps things go more smoothly from here on. If you’re in the Black Class, you can arrange an in-person consultation. I know it may be difficult to make time, but if you can meet with the staff every now and then, you’ll gradually learn what kind of women the man prefers through ordinary small talk. The staff may also start opening up about things they don’t usually talk about. (That could be dangerous, haha.)
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I’m Saito, the column writer♪ > I tried adding a little to the amount the woman requested. > Her reaction was very straightforward. > This isn’t something that can be standardized, but the amount a woman finally works up the courage to name is probably not her “desired amount,” but rather the minimum she can accept without being turned down. I also think that’s something important to keep in mind. Let’s do our best together. Haha.
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