Older guys and “old uncles” really aren’t very cool, are they? It can’t be helped, I suppose. To avoid embarrassing a younger woman, would it be wiser to choose a low-key, less crowded restaurant for dinner? The other day, I saw a woman registered with UC dining with an elderly man at a restaurant in a famous hotel, and the mismatch felt rather uncomfortable. I don’t know whether it was papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but shouldn’t older men be more considerate of the women they’re with? I know you could say it’s between the two of them, but it was honestly a bit unpleasant to look at.

This post is so incoherent. How do you know she’s a member here? She may be a member, but that doesn’t necessarily mean she’s doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), does it? Male members don’t usually refer to themselves as “old men,” so I’m guessing this was written by a woman. If you’re a guy, why not head to Ginza? There are plenty of age-gap couples there, from dinner companions to papa-katsu, so you’ll feel less conspicuous. And if you’re a papa-katsu woman, do you dislike having dinner with your papa (a male supporter) at a famous restaurant? Then try directly suggesting that you go to his room instead. He might be pleased. That way, you won’t have to suffer either—win-win.

Are you a man or a woman? Who cares about other people? As long as you’re enjoying yourself, that’s all that matters.

It’s also pretty uncool to go to famous hotel restaurants, flaunt it, or wander around where people can see you. Even if the woman appears happy on the surface, I doubt many of them are genuinely pleased deep down. Those places are also frequented by people who don’t know much about restaurants. That said, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with going somewhere truly delicious and memorable. Besides, people who have never done papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) generally don’t pay much attention to the couples around them anyway.